Frequently Asked Question about Singles and Dating

Who attends the Dances?

Generally between 350 and 600 singles attend the Friday dances, with the number being higher if a live band is performing. The ratio of men and women is usually well balanced and the age group is primarily 40s to 60s, although there are some younger and older folks as well. These are nice, boy-next-door, girl-next-door kinds of people, polite and easy going. For many people part of the appeal of the dances is the interesting variety of singles and the new people each week. About 40% of the people come for the first time because a friend brought them; it's a friendly crowd.

What happens at the dance?

The music starts as soon as the doors open at 8 p.m. and usually there are people dancing right away. The hotel has at least two cash bars set up in the ballroom, for those who would like a drink. The music continues non stop until a short break efor the raffle at 11:00pm then continues until 12:30am.

There is a large dance floor and a deejay and or band who plays a variety of music. A variety of music is played and because the music tempo changes regularly, it is easy to mingle and change dance partners.

A couple of times a month we specialize in theme dances where we feature a "special" event , such as a '50s night, disco, Halloween party, etc. All the dances are nonsmoking events.

What's the music at the dances?

The deejay, plays a mix of dance songs from the '40s through the '90s, including a little bit of ballroom and a little bit of country. We feature a variety of music, including line dances. The basic formula is three fast songs and two slow songs. Feel free to make requests! We also have live bands that play a variety of music; sometimes we have a 50's/60's band, or disco, but always dance oriented.

When are the dances held?

The dances are held evenings from 8 p.m. to 12:30am . We also do weekday dances, (check the current schedule) and hold holiday dances as well, such as Sunday night Labor Day and Memorial Day weekends.

Where are the dances held?

The dances are in ballrooms and meeting rooms of various hotels and resorts around the area. . Generally the location moves each week. If you know of a great venue, do let us know!

Do people really meet at the parties?

Absolutely! Tons of friendships and relationships have been formed, and many marriages consummated. What a great way to meet new people when you can see hundreds or more people of the opposite sex; to see how they talk; to see how they walk; to see how they shake hands; to see how they dress; to see how they are groomed; to see how they smile; and to be able to look into their eyes!

Do I have to be a member to attend?

Nope. No memberships whatsoever. The dances are open to all singles. Just pay at the door.

How do we know that all the people attending are single?

Here's the honest answer: experience says that you can feel very comfortable in the environment. First of all, after more than the hundreds of singles events that we've produced, there have been unbelievably only a very few incidents of someone married trying to pass themselves off as single. Secondly, because the parties are held in hotel nightclubs, we are required to allow registered hotel guests entry to the club. Sometimes these people are married, but most often they are with their spouse. Occasionally, a married hotel guest, unaccompanied by their husband or wife, will enter the nightclub, but here again, history says that the vast majority of the time, there is no interference by the hotel guest. Bottom line, everyone is welcome at the parties.

Do people come alone?

Absolutely! This question is most often asked by women. The hotels & restaurant nightclubs where we hold parties are always upscale, and in comfortable, safe surroundings.

Will I feel comfortable coming by myself!

Sure! Just stroll in to the party, go right over to the bar and put a drink (of anything) in your hand, so you'll feel like you're in the party, and also this will give you something to do with your hands.

What is the admission price?

It varies based on the day of the week and what is offered, but it is usually $5 to $7.

Is there a dress code?

Yes. Dress must be presentable. Shorts are not permitted. Jeans in good condition are allowed. Most people wear what might be called "dressy casual" attire -- slacks and shirts for the men (some wear suits in the winter), and dresses or slacks and blouses for the women.

Do you allow smoking?

No. There is no smoking in the ballroom or lobby areas. All the hotels have nearby outside areas for smoking.

Is there a bar?

Yes, the hotel sets up a bar in the ballroom, with sodas and juices, beer, wine and mixed drinks. Prices are set by the hotel.

How do I meet people at the dances?

Mingle. Look friendly, be friendly. Talk to both men and women. This is a dance, not a "sit." Mingle. Ask people to dance. Say "yes" when someone asks you to dance. When people see you out dancing with lots of people, they are more likely to notice you, and to think you are friendly and worth meeting. Mingle! See Nine Steps for Having Fun at the Dances